Some people seem to look effortlessly beautiful don't they? How do you make yourself look more attractive? What is this secret these people are hiding? How do they do it? Is it some strange cult they are part of? Is it just completely natural?

I won't lie. For some people, they are enviably lucky with their attractiveness. Some have no idea they even are attractive. But how do the rest of us get that way?

1/ Highlight to left side of your face

A study published in the journal Experimental Brain Research found people preferred the left side of over the right. Highlight this side of your face by turning more to the left side when on camera or chatting in person.

2/ Stop trying to look really thin - aka model thin!

Coincidentally, the opposite sex actually thinks a more natural body type is more attractive than those skinny so and so's you see in the magazines. Instead of trying to make yourself stick thin or body builder muscley, concentrate on accentuating those curves and features you have. Tone a bit but not to excess.

3/ Quit crossing your arms and legs

When we cross our arms and our legs, our body language says we are off limits. It closes yourself off whereas open arms welcomes people to you. Having an open body language actually makes you appear as a confident and charismatic person be you male or female.

4/ Walk tall

Standing and walking tall actually gives you the appearance of being interesting and interested in what others have to say. It signals youth, openess and alertness. Slouching has the opposite effect. This doesn't mean you have to wear heels ladies (although these will make you appear even more feminine) or platform's for you men for that height. But, instead, alter your posture to a more straighter and stronger one, and add a slight swagger/sway to your walk (men with shoulders and ladies with hips). 

5/ Wear bright colours

Bright colours give the appearance of confidence. There's a reason male peacocks have bright coloured feathers and not just for the eyes to ward of predators. Bright colours not only help with your confidence level due to all eyes being on you but you also stand out in the crowd, thus making you the more attractive person. It's not called peacocking for nothing...

6/ Don't take yourself too seriously

Noone wants to be around someone who moans and whines and is doom and gloom all the time. They want to be around someone chirpy, happy and who makes them feel good about themselves. Take your time to smile at a stranger, tell someone a good joke, have a funny anecdote that others can relate to at your own expense. Remember, it's not your strengths that endear someone to you but your weaknesses. Don't be afraid to let that show. You are human after all.

7/ Ask questions

People love chatting about themselves or a topic of interest they are keen on. Although your own successes and goals are important and sure to impress, take the time to be interested in the other person. Ask questions, learn what they love and what their goals are. This will endear them to you all the more.

8/ Give yourself time to pamper

I know, sometimes it's really hard to take that little more time to give yourself a good pamper. I know finances sometimes wont allow for a spa treatment or weekend away...But honestly, grab that invigorating shower or a lovely relaxing bath, exfoliate your troubles away and give your hair a good head massage of a scrub. Allow yourself a bit of time to not think for a little but concentrate on yourself and your skincare. You will feel so much better following.

9/ Don't be afraid to smile

Smiling is an amazing thing. People are naturally drawn to a smiley face. We also use less muscles when we smile than when we frown. 

10/ Don't be afraid to make mistakes

We all mess up. We all say the wrong thing. We all cringe when this happens. But again, it makes you more human and more endearing. Smile, laugh about it and move forwards. Don't let it hold you back. As the old saying goes...if at first you don't succeed...try, try, try again!

And finally, remember, you are super beautiful in your own way and noone in this world is quite as beautiful and unique as you are. ❤️